GROWING UP AND GROWING OLD

The first day of school our professor introduced his self and challenged us to get to know someone we did not already know. I stood up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder. I turned around to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with a smile that lit up her entire being. 

She said “Hi, handsome. My name is Rose. I am 87 years old. Can I give you a hug?” 

I laughed and enthusiastically responded, “Of course, you may!” and she gave me a giant squeeze. 

“Why are you in college at such a young age?” I asked. 

She jokingly replied, “I am here to meet a rich husband, get married, have a couple of children and then retire and travel.” 

“No, seriously,” I asked.

I was curious what may have motivated her to be taking on this challenge at her age. 

“I always dreamed of having a college education and now I am getting one!” she told me.

After class we walked to the student union building and shared a chocolate milkshake. We became instant friends. Every day for the next three months we would leave class together and talk non-stop. I was always mesmerized listening to this time-machine as she shared her wisdom and experience with me. Over the course of year, Rose became a campus icon and she easily made friends wherever she went. She loves to dress up and she reveled in the attention bestowed upon her from the other students. She was living it up. 

At the end of the semester we invited Rose to speak at our football banquet. I will never forget what she taught us. She was introduced and stepped up to the podium. As she began to deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her three by five cards on the floor. 

Frustrated and a little embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and simply said “I am sorry I am so jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this whiskey is killing me! I will never get my speech back in order so let me just tell you what I know.” 

As we laughed she cleared her throat and began, “We do not stop playing because we are old. We grow old because we stop playing. There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy and achieving 

success. “You have to laugh and find humor every day.” “You have got to have a dream.” When you lose your dreams, you die. We have so many people walking around who are dead and they do not even know it!”

 

““There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up.” If you are 19 years old and lie in bed for one full year and do not do one productive thing, you will turn 20 years old. If I am 87 years old and lie in bed for one full year and do not do one productive thing, I will turn 88. Everybody will grow older. That does not take any talent or ability or effort. The idea is to grow up by always finding the opportunity in change. ”

““Have no regrets.” The elderly usually do not have regrets for we they did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear death are those with regrets.” She concluded her speech by courageously singing “The Rose”. She challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our daily lives. At the year's end, Rose finished the college degree she had begun all those years ago. One week after graduation, Rose died peacefully in her sleep. Over 2,000 students attended her funeral in tribute to the wonderful woman who taught by example that it is never too late to be all you can possibly be.


DISCLAIMER: I did not write this article. Source is anonymous.